Tuesday, April 28, 2015

Depression Confession & Consumption.

Depression Confession 

Depression: an issue in life that is easily over-looked.
Depression: a mental condition characterized by feelings of severe despondency and dejection, typically also with feelings of inadequacy and guilt, often accompanied by lack of energy and disturbance of appetite and sleep. (Google)
Depression: Unhappiness, sadness, melancholy, misery, sorrow, woe, gloom, despondency, low spirits, a heavy heart, despair, desolation, hopelessness. (Google)
Depression:  "... an episode of sadness or apathy along with other symptoms that lasts at least two consecutive weeks and is severe enough to interrupt daily activities” (WebMD) 

Depression: The reason that girl sits alone at lunch. The reason that man keeps his head down in the office. The reason that boy avoids school. The reason life seems impossible. 

What a consumption.
One day you can be on cloud nine. Your day is getting brighter and brighter. Then suddenly you're triggered. You remember it all, you get the flashbacks. You can remember the scents, the sights, the taste, the words. You remember. Gone is your chipper day, and hello to your gray cloud.

What http://www.dbsalliance.org has to say about depression.
-Major depressive disorder affects approximately 14.8 million American adults, or about 6.7 percent of the U.S. population age 18 and older, in a given year. (Archives of General Psychiatry, 2005 Jun; 62(6): 617-27)
-As many as one in 33 children and one in eight adolescents have clinical depression. (Center for Mental Health Services, U.S. Dept. of Health and Human Services, 1996)
-Depression is the cause of over two-thirds of the 30,000 reported suicides in the U.S. each year. (White House Conference on Mental Health, 1999)
-Untreated depression is the number one risk for suicide among youth. Suicide is the third leading cause of death in 15 to 24 year olds and the fourth leading cause of death in 10 to 14 year olds. Young males age 15 to 24 are at highest risk for suicide, with a ratio of males to females at 7:1. (American Association of Suicidology, 1996)

Okay Bailey, so what's your point?
My  point is YOU'RE NOT ALONE. 

… It is the LORD who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed. -Deuteronomy 31:8

When the righteous cry for help, the LORD hears and delivers them out of all their troubles. -Psalms 34:17

For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. -Romans 8:38-39

I understand, it's hard. No one claims that holding on is easy. No one says to only expect good days. However, holding on can bring the greatest pleasure in life. 

I waited patiently for the LORD; he inclined to me and heard my cry. He drew me up from the pit of destruction, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure. He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God. Many will see and fear, and put their trust in the LORD. -Psalms 40:1-3

This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun! -2 Corinthians 5:17

My life was invaded with love.  
http://www.godvine.com/A-Story-of-a-Severely-Depressed-Teen-Who-Turned-to-Jesus-1659.html

Song of Inspiration: 
How Can It Be - Lauren Daigle

Sunday, April 19, 2015

As The Future Approaches.

Time is ticking, days are flying, months are soaring and the years... they're booking it into the next. As I approach the end of my Junior year of high school all I can think about is what the future holds for me. The pressure of getting outstanding grades, exceptional recommendations and killer A.C.T. or S.A.T. scores is quite overwhelming. 

A career in the field of Journalism would be a dream come true, and the opportunity to be prosecutor for Family and Child law would be the cherry on top of it all. So my question now is:  How do I remain confident in the plan God has for me?
 
HOLD ON TO THE TRUTH

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts. -Isaiah 55:8-9

Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established. -Proverbs 16:3

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. -Proverbs 3:5



Side note: 
I want to start adding the song that spoke to me during my blog session, cause let's face it, who writes without listening to music? Keep in mind not all songs will be Christian Songs. Here it is:

Song of Inspiration:
Oh God - Citizens & Saints



Sunday, April 12, 2015

Love.

Love Never Fails.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  Love never fails. -1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Patience, kindness, honor, selflessness, forgiving, protection, trust, hope, perseverance and never failing. How many people can honestly "That's my love life"? 

Someone near and dear to my heart recently said, "I believe that people are naturally inclined to be extraordinary, however, society dooms us to mediocracy." Harsh, right? But in all reality, how true is that? As children we found love in Disney movies. We read and watched love stories about princesses being awakened by a true-loves first kiss, prince charming saving the damsel from towers guarded by evil dragons, we've seen spells broken by love, and we've wished and dreamed that one day, we too, will experience that love.

However, society has highlighted love as something temporary, we've been trained to give up and leave once things get a little sticky. You hardly ever hear stories about couples that have endured such  hardships in their relationships. But we do hear the applause for these breakups and divorces. How on earth can we remain hopeful for this extraordinary love when society has shown us it doesn't exist?

Forget what society says and hold on to the truth. 

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.


Fruit for thought:
We have the ability, just like said above, to be inclined to an extraordinary life. Why not have and hope for an extraordinary love? How's your love life? Does it possess the above characteristics, or are you too, doomed by society to mediocracy?